求翻译：因此, 家长该放手时就应放手, 让孩子自己在行动中掌握生活的本领, 去尝试失败或成功的考验。父母们对孩子应少一些“无微不至”的关心, 多一些旁观和鼓励。这样, 才不会使“爱”成为“害”。是什么意思？

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Hence, parents should be on when the hands let go and allow your child's own life in action, and the ability to try to test the failure or success. Parents of children who should be a little less concerned about the "meticulous" and a little more bystanders and encouraged. In this way, it does not m

Therefore, the guardian should drop when should drop, to enable child to grasp the life in the motion the ability, attempts the defeat or the success test.The parents to the child should few somewhat “meticulous” care, many some onlookings and encouragement.Thus, only then cannot cause “the love” to

Therefore, parents that when you let go it should be let go, let the children themselves in the action master life skills, try test of failure or success. Parents for children should be less "perfect" concern, some onlookers and encouragement. In this way we will not "love" became "victims".

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