求翻译：所以说做好一个家长非常重要，而且尽量通过家庭比较良好的沟通，来处理好现有的制度在我们孩子身上产生的弊端，或者降低到最小。父母千万不要放大这个制度的不好，我们现在有很多人放大了制度之恶，比如说给孩子报满了培训班，其实很多是没有必要的，其中有很大一部分是出于攀比心理，其实应该从孩子的身心健康出发进行规划。还有给孩子比较正确的定位也是非常关键，我们国家教育跟美国教育有点不一样的是，美国认为10%的孩子是比较优秀和杰出的，因此这些孩子可以承担更大的压力，他就可以按照他的方向去努力达到自己的目标。是什么意思？

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Therefore it is said that parents do a good job as far as possible is very important, and through the family is good communication, good to deal with the existing system in our children the evils, or reduced to a minimum. 10 million parents do not zoom in this system is bad, we now have a lot of peo

Therefore said completes a guardian to be extremely important, moreover as far as possible through the family quite good communication, processes the good existing system the malpractice which produces on our child body, or reduces slightly to.The parents do not have to enlarge this system not to be

So said one of the parents is very important, and as far as possible through the family good communication, to deal with the existing system in our child abuse, or reduced to a minimum. Parents do not zoom in this system is not good, we now have a lot of people have enlarged system of evil, give chi

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