求翻译：一个经常为自己的人生做决定的孩子，他的生命力是汪洋恣肆的，尽管因为年轻，他会遇到一些挫折，但那些挫折最终和成就一起，让他感觉到自己的生命是丰富多彩的，更重要的是，这是自己的。相反，假如孩子只能按照父母的决定去做。那么，这些决定越正确，其窒息感就可能越强。他的生命激情却会越来越低。要改善这一点，最好的方式就是适当放手是什么意思？

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