求翻译：小伙子一表人才，用上海话说，卖相勿推板。但女儿告诉我，心仪曹先生的理由并非缘于帅气的外表，更多的是被这位“上海新好男人”的真诚善良、耐心大度、沉稳细腻、不自私、有担当的品格感动到。这里谨向我的亲家致敬，谢谢你们多年来的辛勤付出，养育了一个好儿子。从今往后我们白捡了一个儿子，名字叫曹毅，而禾苗也就是你们的亲闺女。咱们双赢了。按惯例，最后总要给小两口一些关照，中国古代对夫妻关系最佳境界的描述是举案齐眉、相敬如宾，受此启发，也凑上八个字送给你们吧：互敬互信，百年好合。谢谢来宾们的耐心，听我说完这些话。是什么意思？

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young guy with a talented, Shanghai, and words that do not sell. However, My daughter told me that heart, Mr. Cao was not the reason for the handsome appearance, and a lot more that the "new man" of the sincere generosity, kindness, patience and calm, not selfish, it is moved to the character. Here

Young man a man of striking appearance, with Shanghai as saying, do not push plate appearance. But my daughter told me, a few reasons for Mr Cao was not due to handsome appearance, more was to be the "Shanghai new man" sincere kindness, patience, generosity, calm and exquisite, not selfish, as well