求翻译：第一、能有意识地控制生活，控制自己的行为，把握自己的命运，而不被意外的，不能控制的无意识的力量所驱使;第二、能正确认识自我，了解自己的实际情况，能意识到自己的优点和缺点并能正确地对待;是什么意思？

First, the conscious control of life, control their own behavior, to grasp their own destiny, rather than driven by unexpected and can not control the power of the unconscious; Second, a correct understanding of self, understanding of their actual situation, can consciousness to their own advantages

First of all, be able to consciously control their lives, and control their own behavior, their own destiny, and not be unexpected and cannot be controlled by the power of the unconscious; 2, driven to correct self-understanding, understanding of their own realities, are aware of their strengths and

First, can control the life consciously, controls own behavior, grasps own destiny, but by the accident, unconsciousness strength which cannot control is not urged; Second, can understand correctly, understood own actual situation, can realize own merit and the shortcoming and can treat correctly;

First, to consciously control, to control their own behavior, decisions in their own lives, not accidentally, beyond the control of the unconscious forces that drive; second, correctly understand ourselves and understanding of their own realities, aware of your strengths and weaknesses and to treat

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