求翻译：礼貌强调的是交际对方(other)，即听话人和第三者，而非说话人自己( self )，多吃一点亏，从而在交际中使双方感觉受到尊重，同时反过来获得对方对自己的好感。是什么意思？

Emphasized polite communication the other party (other), that is, obedient and a third party, rather than talking to themselves (self), eat a little loss, so that the communication manipulation both sides feel to be respected, while in turn each other on their own favor.

What manner emphasize is the social intercourse the other party(other), then obey the person and third party, rather than talk person's oneself( self), eat some 亏 more, thus make in the social intercourse both parties the felling is subjected to the respect, turning over to acquire the other party i

Politeness emphasis is human relations opposite party (other), namely is obedient the human and the third party, but non-storyteller (self), eat to owe, thus causes both sides in the human relations to feel receives the respect, simultaneously in turn obtains opposite party to own favorable impressi

Courtesy emphasize communication each other (other) that the obedient person and third parties, and not the speaker itself (self), eat a little, so that both parties feel respected and in communication, at the same time, in turn, access to each other's for their own good.

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