求翻译：处理矛盾冲突时不能首先寻找对方的错误，而是应当采取良好的态度与对方沟通，同时注意改善自身的缺陷，必要时利用法律途径和权威专家提供支持，这才能有效的解决危机。是什么意思？

Dealing with conflict can not be the first to find each other's mistakes, but should be a good attitude to communicate with each other, while paying attention to improve their own defects, if necessary, use legal means and authority of experts to provide support, this can be an effective solution to

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Processes when the contradictory conflict cannot first seek opposite party mistake, but is must have the good manner and opposite party communicates, simultaneously pays attention improves own flaw, when the necessity using the legal way and the authoritative expert provides the support, can now at

Error cannot find each other in the first place when dealing with conflicts, but should take a good attitude to communicate with each other, while improving their own defects, using legal means and authority to provide support when necessary, it can effectively solve the crisis.

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