求翻译：中国的家长也要像美国的家长那样, 把自己的孩子看作与自己地位平等的人, 尊重他们, 平等地对待他们, 努力营造民主的家庭氛围。对于孩子自己的事, 要给孩子更多自由选择的权利, 给孩子创造更多的自主选择的机会, 并尊重孩子所做出的选择。让他们自己去规划生活、选择人生, 不要让他们成为实现家长的梦想的工具, 家长要做的只是引导而不是强制性的决定。事实证明, 孩子们对于强加给他们的任何决定都是排斥的, 而被迫接受带来的只能是压力而不会是动力。是什么意思？

Chinese parents want to be like the parents in the United States, their children as equal human beings with their own status, respect them and treat them equally, and strive to create a democratic family atmosphere. For the child's own affairs, to give children more freedom of choice to children and

China's parents also want to be like their parents in the United States, with their own children as their own equality of status, respect them, and they are treated equal, Democratic efforts to create a family atmosphere. For your child's own, and you want to give your child more freedom to choose t

China's guardians also must look like US's guardian such, regards as own child with own equal in status person, respects them, treats them equally, builds the democracy diligently the family atmosphere.Regarding the child matter, needs to give the child to be more the free choice the right, creates

Chinese parents also like United States parents did, and his own children as equal status of people, respecting them, treat them equally, efforts to create a democratic atmosphere of the family. For the children themselves, to give children the right to freely choose, give children more opportunitie

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