求翻译：在经过了童年的不幸与婚姻的折磨，弗洛拉深深明白，女人必须独立自主才能不受别人的控制。这一理想在她心中渐渐成形，那并不只是一个理想而已，她要实现这一目标。是什么意思？

After the torture of the unfortunate childhood and marriage, Flora deeply understand that a woman of independence can not someone else's control. This ideal is gradually taking shape in her mind, it is not just an ideal only, she wanted to achieve this goal.

After a childhood in the tragic and tortured marriage, understand very well that woman must be independent of the others can not be controlled. This ideal in her mind taking shape, it does not merely an ideal, she is going to achieve this goal.

Was passing through the childhood misfortune and marital suffering, Flora deep understood deeply that, the woman must maintain independence and keep initiative to be able not others control.This ideal forms gradually in her heart, not only that and an ideal, she must achieve this goal.

After a childhood marriage and unfortunately suffering, deeply understand Flora, a woman must be independent to are not under the control of others. The ideal began forming in her heart, it is not just an ideal, she wants to achieve this goal.

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