求翻译：母亲这个角色不应该被当做专制和压抑的象征，这就是一个母亲，每个人的父母都是这样的，或者说，都有这样的一面，不论他们的性格如何。父母在给予我们庇护的同时，必然会延缓我们的成长，在真正长大之前，我们的生活，甚至人格都是依赖于父母的。获得父母的肯定、达到父母的期望在某一阶段是孩子最大的追求，随着年龄的增长，对自我的追求开始萌芽，当两种追求发生冲突时，阵痛就开始了。是什么意思？

The mother of this role should not be treated as a symbol of tyranny and oppressive, this is a mother, everyone's parents are like this, or that have this side, regardless of their character. Parents give us asylum at the same time, is bound to slow down our growth, before really grow up, our lives,

This is a role her mother should not be treated as authoritarian and oppressive of the symbol, and that is a mother, everyone's parents are doing, or that there are such a panel, regardless of their personality. We have parents in the asylum-seekers will slow down our growth, grew up in real life be

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Mothers the role should not be treated as a symbol of tyranny and oppression, that is a mother, everyone's parents are like that, or, rather, all side, no matter what their personality. While parents give us asylum will inevitably slow down our growth, before the real grown up, our lives, even perso