求翻译：she also says that these childrom may find it hard to think for themselves. when they are clder是什么意思？

她还表示，这些childrom可能很难为自己着想。他们是clder时

她还说,这些childrom可能难以相信自己。 当他们clder

她也说这些childrom也许发现难为他们自己认为。 当他们是clder

她还说这些 childrom 可能会发现很难自己思考。当他们是 clder

Dr A lice Green agrees. She also says that these children may find it hard to think for themselves when they are older." Parents are trying to plan their kid'slives for them. When these kids are adults, they might find it difficult to plan things for temselves." Parents should learn to give their ki