求翻译：晚上我一边接着我母亲的电话一边忙着煮菜，和母亲聊着一些生活的琐事，比如一个朋友得了癌症不久将不在于人世，是主动去看还是等她邀请呢是什么意思？

Then my mother at my side of the phone while busy cooking, and her mother chatted some of life's chores, such as cancer will soon be a friend is not dead, is still waiting for her invitation to take the initiative to see it

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Evening on the one hand me then on the other hand my mother's telephone busy is boiling the vegetable, is chatting some life trivial matters with the mother, for instance friend cancer has not lain in the world soon, will be looked at or waits for her on own initiative to invite

At night I went on my mother's phone is busy cooking dishes, and my mother chatting live trivia, such as a friend of mine had cancer will soon be is not dead, is an active looking also for her invitation

I am busy with the simmered dishes(Nimono) while following my mother's telephone at night, having a chat about the trival matters of some life to mother, for example one friend get cancer lie in this world, go watch voluntarily or,etc. she invitation