求翻译：从少年到成人，我们需要取舍。鱼和熊掌不可兼得。长大成人，我们总是面对着无数的抉择。少年时有父母帮我们做取舍，成人后父母也仅仅是提供意见，真正决定权掌握在我们手中。小时候，大人们告诉我，应该上哪所学校才是对自己好。成人后，不管大人们如何建议，我还是按照自己的意愿选择。是什么意思？

From juvenile to adult, we need to choose. Can not have both fish and bear's paw. Grown up, we always face numerous choices. Youth, parents do choose to help us, adult parents just give advice, the real decision-making power in our hands. A child, adults tell me which school should be on their own i

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From the youth to the adult, we needs the choices.The fish and the bear's paws cannot have both.Grows up, we are always facing the innumerable choices.When youth has the parents to help us to make the choices, after the adult the parents also merely provides the opinion, true decision-making power g

From the juvenile to the adult, we need to choose. Fish and bear's paw is not available and have it. Grow up, we are always faced with countless choices. Juveniles with parents to help us make a choice, adult parents just give advice, real decision-making power is in our hands. As a child, people te

From teenager to the adult, we need to choose. Fish and bear's paw can't hold concurrently and have. Growing to manhood, we are always facing countless choices. Have parents help us make choose at teenager, parents only offer the suggestion too behind adult, the real power to make decision is graspe