求翻译：真正的爱情，不是一见钟情，而是日久生情；真正的缘份，不是上天的安排，而是你的主动；真正的自卑，不是你不优秀，而是你把她想得太优秀；真正的关心，不是你认为好的就要求她改变，而是她的改变你是第一个发现的；真正的矛盾，不是她不理解你，而是你不会宽容她。是什么意思？

True love is not love at first sight, but soon fell in love; true fate, not God's arrangement, but you take the initiative; real self-esteem, not your not good, but you want her too good; real care, not what you think good to ask her to change, but she was the first change you found; real contradict

True love, not a love, but love bred; True love is not heaven's arrangements, but your initiative; genuine inferiority, not your best, but you do not want to be too good; her real concern is not that you think good requires that she changed her change, but you are the one found in the contradictions

The true love, is not falls in love, but will be excites the emotions in the course of time; The true fate, is not the heaven arrangement, but is your initiative; True feeling inferior, is not you is not outstanding, but is you wants to result in her too outstandingly; The true care, is not you thou

Real of love, is not love at first sight, but day long health love; real of fate, is not heaven of arrangements, but you of active; real of inferiority, is not you does not excellent, but you to she wanted to was too excellent; real of concern, is not you think good of on requirements she change, bu

Real of love, is not love at first sight, but day long health love; real of fate, is not heaven of arrangements, but you of active; real of inferiority, is not you does not excellent, but you to she wanted to was too excellent; real of concern, is not you think good of on requirements she change, bu