求翻译：我认为这不是真爱，是一种溺爱。溺爱是一种懒惰的、不负责任的爱。与溺爱相对应的是真爱，真爱是尊重孩子独立的爱，真爱的父母懂得在孩子不同成长阶段满足他不同的成长需要。真爱的父母懂得放手，接受并乐于看到孩子的自我独立和自我成长。这是一个挑战，这首先要父母承认一个事实：孩子是一个独立的人，不是‘我’的附属品。要做到这一点，并不容易，所以很多父母选择了偷懒的溺爱。”是什么意思？

I think this is not love, is a doting. Spoil is a lazy, irresponsible love. Corresponds with the spoil is true love, true love is to respect the child independent of love, true love in the child's parents know he was different in different stages of growth to meet needs. Love of parents know how to

I think that this is not true love, is a fondness. Drowning love is a lazy, irresponsible and love. with fondness counterpart to the true love, true love is love, and respect for their children to learn to be independent of their parents know at the time of the child's true love in different stages

I thought this is not really loves, is one kind spoils.Spoils is one kind lazy, the irresponsible love.With spoils is really loves, the real love which corresponds respects the child independent love, really loves the parents understood meets his different growth needs in the child different growth

I think that it is not true love, is a doting. Dotes on a lazy, irresponsible love. Corresponding to the spoiling of true love, true love is respect for the child independent love, true love parents know their children meet the developmental needs of his different at different growth stages. Parents

I think that it is not true love, is a doting. Dotes on a lazy, irresponsible love. Corresponding to the spoiling of true love, true love is respect for the child independent love, true love parents know their children meet the developmental needs of his different at different growth stages. Parents